How or when you fell in love really doesn’t matter, after you do fall in love the problem is staying that way. The glow wears off slowly but surely. According to scientists and social scientists the chemicals that gave you the high when you fell in love wear off in somewhere between 5 and 7 years.
When they wear off you want that feeling back but if things aren’t good between you and your spouse it’s very hard to get the feelings of love back. It takes a lot of work and most don’t want to work at it. It’s so much easier to fall in love with someone else so you can have the high and the rush you feel when you are in love. Much easier than learning how to fall in love again with your mate.
We are all human and that means we are not perfect. We have our limitations and we always will. Problems are inherent in all relationships. Some can be solved, some can’t. Happiness is a route that will happen. Here are some that will help guide you through the harder times in a relationship and help you learn how to get love.
Our beliefs about love and loving frequently hamper us in our pursuit to get love. We learned about loving from our families but the problem is no two families are alike so how you want to be loved and how you love your partner may not be what he or she needs in order to feel love. Ask your significant other what he or she needs to feel loved and then you can be sure you are showing them love the way they need to be loved.